Is my friend jealous of me?

I have been really good friends with this girl for around 17 years now and I honestly love her to bits. She is firery and confident just like me lool and we really do have a laugh, however, it feels as though sometimes she doesnt like me.

Whenever we are in front of guys she tries to say sly bitchy remarks and I feel as though this gets my back up and I want to react in a bitchy nature which is hard for me as I am really not a bitch.

I like this guy at the moment and my friend already has a boyfriend although I have been single for over a year, the problem is that she wants to come every where I go and if I take her to meet this guy with me I just know she will try and embaress me

I dont know if she does these things on purpose or not? I would hope NOT but hey who knows?

Im really easy going and I do attract lots of guys 'just not the ONE' so far. I ts as though my friend is unhappy in her relationship and then tries to sabotage mine.

Is this standard behaviour

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ANSWER BY VICTORIA GRANT
by: Anonymous

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I have been really good friends with this girl for around 17 years now and I honestly love her to bits. She is firery and confident just like me lool and we really do have a laugh, however, it feels as though sometimes she doesnt like me.

Whenever we are in front of guys she tries to say sly bitchy remarks and I feel as though this gets my back up and I want to react in a bitchy nature which is hard for me as I am really not a bitch.

I like this guy at the moment and my friend already has a boyfriend although I have been single for over a year, the problem is that she wants to come every where I go and if I take her to meet this guy with me I just know she will try and embaress me

I dont know if she does these things on purpose or not? I would hope NOT but hey who knows?

Im really easy going and I do attract lots of guys 'just not the ONE' so far. I ts as though my friend is unhappy in her relationship and then tries to sabotage mine.

Is this standard behaviour

ANSWER

Thank you for your question. One that is close to my own heart.

It sounds as though your friend is slightly jealous of you and instead of breaking up the friendship she would rather be in pain watching you become more sucessful by the day.

When people try to embaress you and make you feel small it is a reflection of their own insecurity which has nothing to do with you.

This is not standard behaviour at all, true friends are happy with each other when things are good and they suppport each other when times are rough.

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