How can I step out of my comfort zone?
For the past couple of years I've been having bad luck motivating myself to socialize with people and now for the second semester I've been attending this community college and I still haven't made any strides in getting better.
And there's another thing there are lots of girls up here which makes me nervous. I wanna talk to girls I really do but I seem to think that talking to girls is some sort science.
I always think to myself what should I say or she'll never talk to me. I always fear for the worst and then I start to put myself down, thinking to myself I can't do this or I never be able to talk to her.
Due to me not being very social I have a hard time opening up myself and making conservations with others. I see people around and I listen to there conservations and it follows smoothly.
I just don't know how to do anything whether its (approaching a girl, making conservation, being myself around girls, etc). I wanna be myself but its hard when I always suspect that people won't like me because of this or that.
I don't have that high level of confidence where I can be like I can talk to her or I can talk to them. I always admire who aren't afraid to because themselves because really I want to be like that. How can I step out of comfort zone?