Victoria's Weekly Guidance 20/08/2012 'Don't talk about it be about it'
by Victoria Grant
If you are not actively following your dreams and working positively towards your goals then STOP talking about them to your friends and family.
Your weakness to others become apparent in your lack of self discipline. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is confident about who they are and who they are becoming. If you are thinking about achieving something in your own life then the best time to begin is now.
Nothing can change until you decide to. Your destiny is only ever the outcome of your choices so in order to create a better future you MUST decide to make better choices today.
Keep your own counsel and if you want to talk to anyone about your deepest hopes and desires then speak to your self / God. Integrity builds character so you have to learn how to not lie to yourself before you can stop lying to others. It may not be with malice or bad intention but when you don’t follow through on something you said you would it is still a lie.
The best way to let others know what you intend to do is to show them. Actions are much louder than words and you become a positive leader for those around you. You have a warrior spirit and warrior spirits never give up.
The same energy used in discussing your plans could be time spent making them happen. If you want to grow in to the person your intended to be then you need to ask yourself this question sooner rather than later. 'Who are my friends.'
Take stock of your current relationships often to make sure they are still serving their purpose. We all have people in our lives that have been around for many moons and then some, we may have met for a reason, a season or a lifetime. If you are still hanging around with the season buddies 10 years later then this could be aiding the fact that you are not yet living the life of your dreams.
What do you spend time discussing with your nearest and dearest? Great business ideas and ways you can give back to the world? How to inspire each other to get to the next level? Or are you talking about TV shows, fashion, sport and what happened last weekend?.
If you want more then you become more first. That's the law of attraction at its finest! There is no point having long conversations with close ones about what project you will begin on Monday, stop smoking, start exercising and so on if they are not in a position 'mindset' to help you progress.
Keep your plans to yourself.
Love and Light Always
Victoria Grant x
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