Victoria's Weekly Guidance 29/10/2012 'Ladies this ones for YOU!'

by Victoria Grant

Are you a single lady?

Do you have a long list of requirements for your potential mate?

Are these expectations exhaustive and unrealistic?

Instead of waiting for Mr or Mrs right to walk blissfully in to your life, why not start preparing for them.

If you want a partner that is fit, healthy, ambitious, passionate, focused, driven, loving and who cares for their family, then it stands to reason that you must first become all of those things yourself.

Like attracts like, so if you want to attract someone who is beautiful both inside and out then you must reflect that in your actions, thoughts and deeds. When you fall in love with yourself it allows the whole world to love you too. Work on improving daily by being a better person while having unwavering faith that there is someone out here made especially for you. If your paths have not met up until now, it just means that there is more preparation to do.

Men need a woman who is strong and self sufficient. Not one who comes across needy or insecure. The only way to become that woman is to work within your passion. Think about the wonderful plans you had for yourself as a child, 'have you done everything you ever wanted to?' is there a class you have been meaning to take? A business that you know you should start? whatever it is get to it.

Really think to yourself 'what type of wife do I want to be' what can I bring to the relationship? Instead of having a list of expectation's for your potential partner, have a list of what you can offer instead. What can you give? What qualities do you bring to the table? How can you enhance someone else's life? Once you have the answers you will have the blueprint for the areas that you need to work on.

Maybe you need to learn how to cook? Because you want to be a stay at home mum, Or maybe you would rather be the bread winner so you have to now focus on growing you business or career? Could you do with being more patient, forgiving, loving, romantic?

Improving yourself brings great reward to yourself and those around And the result is that you become more valuable, gain self respect and build confidence.

Just think about how great you are going to look and feel when love finds you. You will be fully in Joy and ready to share your true unconditional love.

Remember 'if you haven't met your soul mate yet then it just means that this is the time to fall in love with YOU'

Work towards creating a wonderful future and the rest will follow!

'The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.'

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